Preparing Little Hearts for Easter

When my husband and I got married, we spent three months touring Europe for part of his Bachelor of Arts degree in Worship Arts. We visited several countries, churches and Christian communities. Our final week was spent at the Isle of Iona in Scotland where we experienced an intensely beautiful and meaningful Holy Week.

That week greatly influenced my husband’s worship ministry over the past decade. Through those years of having young children, our Easter traditions centered around church celebrations like Ash Wednesday, Lent, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, decorating the church on Holy Saturday and culminating with celebrating Easter Sunday. As my husband prepared the church for Holy Week, I prepared our children for worship at home. We included our children in the reading of Lent devotionals as a family, decorating at the church with colorful paper butterflies, attaching lilies to a wooden cross and beautifying the church sanctuary.

One year, the lilies were ordered a little too late and we spent a couple days turning up the temperature in our home, hoping that the lilies would open in time for Sunday! Another year, I attempted sewing together several incredibly long panels of fabric for our Good Friday service, which actually turned out quite nicely. I love that our family has served our church together in this way, to serve our church family and create meaningful experiences together as a community in worship of God. Some years, I made my Grandma’s Russian paska bread, hot cross buns or other dishes for a feast. I love to  read special children’s books to my kids, decorate eggs, prepare Easter egg hunts, potluck feasts with friends. One year, the kids and I even made a little homemade garden tomb in a pot on the back porch. Even though they are still young, they remember it! I love all these traditions that have decorated our family life for years! It gives me joy to serve my kids in this way and the greatest joy is seeing the layers of the gospel story go deeper in their hearts each year.

This year is our first Easter at seminary and we are creating new traditions here too! One of the ones we’ve added to our list is going to the botanical gardens on Holy Saturday! It is one of our favorite places to be. The flowers were blooming in all their glory and there were glimpses of what it will look like in a few weeks as everything bursts forth into color. Our children ran through all their favorite mazes and gardens. We go to the gardens often and find joy in seeing the changes of the seasons! Everything is always changing, growing, transforming, dying, and coming to life again. There is always something new to be amazed by, like the orchid display and the hundreds of varieties of lilies and the hungry koi fish eating our cheddar crackers. The gardens have been a place of rest and peace for us. It is a gift from our loving and good Shepherd. Praise to Jesus!

On Good Friday, I read to the kids about Christ’s crucifixion from The Child’s Story Bible. We had some good conversations based off of that. We went to church and experienced the joy of being together with church family, worshiping and meditating on God’s Word. Saturday, my husband made a delicious waffle breakfast and we talked about the confusion and grief that the disciples must have been experiencing that Saturday after his death. How would you have felt? What do you think the disciples did? We talked about how they probably gathered together in homes to be together and process what had happened.

Today was Resurrection Day and we sang of our Redeemer, who conquered sin and death and rose again in power and glory. All praise and glory to You, Lord Jesus. It is You we live for. You are risen. You are risen, indeed… and we wait for You.

The Heart of Hospitality

This post was originally written on my blog, The Artisan Home, on February 15, 2011. I have adapted and edited it for my new blog.

We started out our marriage by traveling Europe for 3 months. Not only did we travel to 6 different countries, we also got to experience living in community with complete strangers everywhere we went. We witnessed firsthand the hospitality of people from other languages & cultures, coming together around simple meals with hearts open to receive the stranger in our midst as they received us. Perhaps this is what true hospitality really is. At the heart of hospitality is a desire to know and be known.


(A friend’s house, Malaga, Spain, 2007)

While in Europe, we drank freshly made tangerine juice from a friend’s orchard in Spain, ate freshly made honey bread and homemade soups & stews in Switzerland, experienced the mild and unique flavor of roasted lamb at a table of strangers on the island of Iona in Scotland and drank tea everywhere! Our adventure in Europe inspired us for a lifetime of hospitality and homemaking. It is something that both Craig and I are passionate about and both creatively pursue. Sometimes I see my husband on the computer and think he’s checking up on sports scores, but really he is searching for a new gourmet recipe for scalloped potatoes or chickpea soup.

I am finding my feet again in this new transition to busy seminary life! I’m finding the joy of cooking and baking returning to me. For the past couple years, I’ve kept cooking and baking pretty simple. Not many new recipes and pretty much the same thing on the meal schedule every week. I’m feeling inspired again in my cooking. Perhaps because my youngest is now two. Perhaps because my oldest two are now in school and I have a little more mental energy to devote to cooking and baking again. Perhaps because over this past Easter, I made my Grandma’s homemade Paska bread which took hours of preparation time, hours filled with joy as I carefully measured out ingredients and watched and nurtured that ball of dough, as I remembered eating her paska bread in her kitchen as a child, and remembering the cultural heritage of food. My roots are 100% from a unique people group of German-speaking Russian Mennonites. The Mennonites have a certain type of heritage that is rich in culture, in food, and in Christianity. I want to pay attention to the recipes of my people group and pass those down to my children.

My husband and I threw together a delectible assortment of roasted vegetables for a recent gathering of friends. We were once again creating a dish together and it was a partnership. We also have been enjoying a television show called “Cooked”. All of these factors together are inspiring me to dive back into the world of creative cooking and add a little more flare to our meals.

I will be writing more about our experience in Europe and our other travels individually to countries around the world where we have experienced hospitality in different ways and in different cultures. Hospitality is not just something I learned while in Europe. I grew up learning hospitality from my mom! My mom wore many hats including that of pastor’s wife meaning we had a LOT of guests coming over to our home! Usually every Sunday we had new people from the church over for “noon meal” as we called it. Sometimes there would be 2 or 3 families, singles, newly married couples, people from all walks of life.


(L’Abri, Switzerland, 2007)

My mom would prepare the meal the night before, have it cooking in the oven during church and then take care of the finishing touches when we got home. My sisters and I would help to set the table with the fine china, setting the forks and spoons in their proper order, lighting the candles, and making sure there were enough tea cups and saucers for dessert. It was beautiful!

My mother has hosted hundreds of people over the years. Her willingness to work hard, create beauty and nourishing meals for strangers, and welcome them into our home… shows that she was really welcoming Christ and serving Him. Each soft spoken word of encouragement, each tissue given for tears that were cried, each warm burst of laughter and each hug goodbye displayed the welcoming embrace of Christ. This was the pattern I was given for hospitality.

Hospitality does not have to look just one way. It does not even have to include a cup or a spoon. When we visited the community of Taize in France, we were given a bowl. That served as our plate, bowl, and cup. The food was simple. We sat on wooden benches in a cold room. The hospitality that shone forth was the experience of fellowshipping with all the guests around a simple meal. It centered around conversation with people from around the world without the distractions of each culture’s way of preparing or serving a meal. We each signed up to serve food and clean up. The focus was on serving and entering into conversation with one another, becoming known. I believe that is the heart of hospitality.

I am bursting with stories, ideas, and inspiration for practicing the art of hospitality and what that truly means in our world. As I research and write on this topic, please know that I am also learning and growing in this gift and do not claim to have it all together! I write to share my journey. I write because it is life-giving to me. I write because I want to inspire others to find beauty, and ultimately Jesus, in the ordinary and mundane aspects of life. I have a passion and vision for my home that God has given me and it is a joy to share that with others.


(Taize, France, 2007)

Hidden in My Heart ~ The Importance of God's Word for Mothers

This is Part 3 in a series titled Hidden in My Heart, a three-part series on treasuring God’s Word in our hearts as mothers and teaching our children to do the same. My prayer is that God uses these words to encourage moms and point them to Jesus, our Good Shepherd! You can read Part 1 – The Doorposts & The Gates here and Part 2-Hiding God’s Word in our Children’s Hearts here.

Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

Deuteronomy 6:4-9 ESV

Motherhood has been a long awaited gift in my life. Little hands to hold, little hearts to shepherd, little lives to cherish, guide, and serve. It is the most beautiful season of my life and I cherish each child the Lord has entrusted to me. Just like a flower, so fragile and delicate, is constantly dependent on the sun and water to cause it to grow, so too are we as mothers dependent on the Holy Spirit and God’s Word to cause us to grow and be sustained spiritually in the beautiful and challenging work of motherhood.

As mothers, we are busy caring for all the many needs of our families in so many ways. Oftentimes, we give of ourselves until we are utterly spent and need a little self-care. It is a legend that the mother pelican bird, in times of famine, will pluck her own flesh to feed her offspring. Motherhood is the self-sacrificial work of giving your life for others. Over the years of raising young children, I have had to find creative ways to stay in God’s Word and receive my spiritual nourishment.

Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart.

(Deuteronomy 6:4-6 ESV)

Here, Moses calls the Israelites to “hear”, to open their ears to God’s commands and love Him with their entire being and way of life. These words shall be such a focus, a priority and sacred call to obey the LORD their God. God desires that intimacy with His people, and He knows we need that. Of course, the good news for those who repent and believe is that since we could not obey God’s Law perfectly, Christ has fulfilled the Law on our behalf which causes us to rest in Him.

My final encouragement in this series is to continue to love the Lord your God and spend time dwelling on His Word. Its in God’s Word where we find: His promises, His law, His testimonies, encouragement and comfort, strength and hope, rebuke and correction, faith instead of fear, and of course, grace, forgiveness, and joy.

How do we do this in our homes?

When I was just starting out in motherhood, I asked a lot of questions to other women who were a little or a lot ahead of me in parenting. I searched the internet for blogs that “fit” my style, convictions, and method of parenting that I aspired to. I enjoyed that season of learning about the little years. Now, I’m in a season of learning about the “older child” years. If you are in the “early childhood” years, I hope this is a place where you can find some ideas that work for you, a springboard to jump off of.

Bible: ESV online audio

This is an excellent way to hear Scripture when you are a busy mama. When my firstborn was a baby, I found that it took a long time to nurse and that those 45 mins could be effectively used for spiritual nourishment, whether reading or listening to a podcast and working through different sermon series. When I found the ESV online audio, I was ecstatic! Just click on a book and press play as you go about your day. Whether you are preparing food, folding laundry, gardening, or going for a walk with the baby, this is a great time to soak in God’s Word. There have been times when I’ve just turned on the Psalms and let the Word of God fill our home in the early mornings while the kids are up and about, playing and I am working in the kitchen. There are also many Bible reading plans available!

Devotionals: Morning & Evening Daily Readings by C.H. Spurgeon

I first heard of this book from a friend when we had just one wee baby. I loved the idea of a short reading for morning and evening for each day of the year. Each reading offers deep theological reflections from Spurgeon. I have feasted on the love and character of God more deeply from this devotional book than any other devotional I have read.

Prayer Books: The Valley of Vision

This is a collection of Puritan prayers. I first heard of this book from our church in Bellingham, Washington. Our pastor read a prayer from it every Sunday. The raw and theologically rich prayers of adoration, confession and petition have impacted me greatly. As a busy mother, my prayers are often like little desperate calls for help or short popcorn prayers of praise and gratitude. Not a lot of eloquence or depth in my prayers. Praying more eloquently will not make Him hear our prayers more. But what I love about a prayer book, is that it opens my eyes to pray things that I wouldn’t think of. Whenever I pick up this prayer book, I’m so glad that I did and it benefits me as I praise, confess and petition.

Read aloud: During particularly busy seasons, I often have just read Scripture or even my devotional aloud to my children. Usually, in a house of four children, at least one of them is awake. So why not just pull them up beside you with a blanket and read the Bible or Spurgeon or the Puritans together? Lots of good conversation starters right there!

Music: There are many Scripture music cd’s available. When I put on these albums for my children to listen to, they benefit me as well. Scripture songs bubble up within me and the Holy Spirit uses God’s Word in song to minister to my heart.

Other ideas include listening to sermon podcasts from your church, joining a Bible study group, or forming Scripture accountability groups and simply reading Scripture posted around your own home. I have used all of these ideas in my creative quest to dwell deeply in God’s Word during the busy season as a mom to little ones. The Lord has used these ideas to daily help me to dwell deep and rest in His Word.

I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.

Psalm 119:11 NIV

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Hidden in My Heart - The Importance of God's Word for Children

This series is titled Hidden in My Heart, a three part series on treasuring God’s Word in our hearts as mothers and teaching our children to do the same. My prayer is that God uses these words to encourage moms and  point them to Jesus, our Good Shepherd! You can read Part 1-The Doorposts & The Gates here.

Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

Deuteronomy 6:4-9 ESV

Late one summer evening in 1984, I was sitting and talking with my mom. We talked about anything and everything that was on my mind. She went on to share with me that our elderly friend, Mary, had died. We talked about this woman who loved Jesus, what happens after we die, Jesus, the cross, sin, salvation, and Heaven. I don’t know the exact moment that God saved me, but that night I prayed a prayer of repentance and faith. My life has never been the same. Christ filled my heart with His love and grace and gave me an urgent desire to share the gospel with anyone I could. I knew that I belonged to God and I wanted others to know God’s great love too. Praise to God!

“You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” Deuteronomy 6:7

That night was just one of the hundreds of ways my mom applied this verse to her life and sought to hide God’s Word in her children’s hearts. Whether we were sitting and chatting on her bed, as I asked her questions about her life, or whether we were pulling weeds in the flower beds, or walking in the rain, as she tucked me in at night and when we rose in the morning. She took this verse very seriously as part of her calling in motherhood. Every opportunity she had to point us to Jesus, she would take it. I still love the smell of my mother’s leather Bible and all the many verses she would read to me, highlighted from years of study.

In this passage, Moses doesn’t offer this as a suggestion to Israel, but says, “You shall,” meaning that God lovingly commands this, for His glory, and for their good. This is His mercy towards us that we might know joy, peace, comfort, strength, truth. We can apply this to our lives too. God wants us to talk about His Word, throughout the day, wherever we go, whenever we get a chance to relate something back to God, something back to His Word. When you go to the park, when you are camping, when you tuck them in at night, when you wake up in the morning, when you are working with them through a friendship issue, speaking Scripture out loud to your children so they hear the Word of God daily. God wants us to center our lives in relation to Him and who He is.

How do we do this in our homes?

There are many good resources available these days, and many ways to creatively implement the teaching of Scripture to our children. When I was starting out in motherhood, I asked some trusted, older women who were a little ahead of me in parenting which resources they used and then from there added other resources that fit our family. This is simply a springboard to jump off of if you’re looking for some ideas.

1. Talking about God’s Ways

Moses and the Israelites lived during the age of oral tradition. They passed on knowledge and understanding by simply talking about it, on and on through the generations. He says, “you shall… talk of them…” We talk about God’s ways while we walk, while we play, while we swim, while we go grocery shopping. We can ask them questions and start conversations, pointing them back to what the Bible says and planting seeds, praying that the Holy Spirit will produce His fruit in His timing.

2. Reading God’s Word

Before there were ever Bible storybooks, children’s music cd’s, and Veggietales, there was the Bible. And while I will add to this list some of our favorite music and books simply because we love music and books here at the Harris house, it must be said that the Bible is completely and totally enough! You don’t need to add to the reading of Scripture. Often, I read to my children as they fall asleep at night. I love these special times together. And sometimes, if I haven’t had time in the Word that day, I read a portion of Scripture to them or work through different books of the Bible.  For several years, my husband and I have incorporated family worship time with singing, reading Scripture and working through a catechism. Since transitioning from pastoral life to seminary life, we are still figuring out how that looks in this busy season of life. However it works for your family, children need to hear Scripture and they will soak it up asking for more! Let them feast on God’s Word!

3. God has gifted authors, musicians, actors and producers with creativity to bless His people and the culture around them in artistic ways. The following is a list of a few resources we have loved:

Story Bibles, Catechism, Theology for Kids:
The Jesus Storybook Bible

The Child’s Story Bible

The New Bible in Pictures for Little Eyes

The Ology

Long Story Short

Training Hearts, Teaching Minds

Covenantal Catechism

Thoughts to Make Your Heart Sing

God’s Promises

God’s Names

Helping Children to Understand the Gospel

Music:

Songs for Saplings ABC & 123, Questions & Answers (8 albums)

Rain for Roots (3 albums)

Hidden in My Heart: A lullaby journey through Scripture

Seeds Family Worship (looking forward to checking this one out soon!)

Slugs & Bugs (looking forward to checking this one out soon!)

Other Resources:
Children Desiring God

JellyTelly

There are many other books and devotionals we have used and several other ways we have taught our children the Bible and I’m excited to continue to share books, music and resources that build up homes in the love of God’s Word and family worship times. Moses called the Israelites to teach their children, diligently, the Word of God. To hide God’s Word in our children’s hearts, we need to know God’s Word for ourselves, which will be the theme of my last post in this series.

I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.
Psalm 119:11 NIV

Hidden in My Heart - The Doorposts & The Gates

Spring is in the air and babies are being born! I know thirteen women who are pregnant right now and three who have just given birth in the past month. Praise to God for the blessing of children! In honor of new life, I have adapted the following devotional that I wrote for a friend’s baby shower last year. I hope it encourages new moms and that God uses these words to point young moms to Jesus, our Good Shepherd. This series is titled Hidden in My Heart, a three part series on treasuring God’s Word in our hearts as mothers and teaching our children to do the same.

Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
Deuteronomy 6:4-9 ESV

While growing up, my parents had a little picture hanging on the wall with three little girls and a dog hiding from a storm in a hollowed out tree. In our family, we had three little girls and a dog. So as sisters, we personalized every picture we found that had three little girls. The verse that went along with that picture was:

I will never leave you nor forsake you.
Hebrews 13:5b

Although this verse is referring to contentment regarding material possessions as mentioned in the first part of the verse 13:5a, the promise holds true that as children of God, He will never leave us or forsake us in any aspect of life as referenced in other Scriptures passages. (Context in Scripture is of utmost importance in interpretation and application).

As a young girl, I treasured that verse in my heart. Every time I would walk past it in our family room, I would read it and it would bring me joy knowing that God’s promises are true and faithful, and no matter what I encountered in life, He would never leave me or forsake me. This plaque on our wall became so special to me. I didn’t realize there was a deeper story behind it.

As a baby, I contracted the illness pertussis. I became so sick that I was hospitalized for over a week as the doctors tried to save my life. Hooked up to machines sustaining me with oxygen, my little body fought hard the symptoms of pertussis. Watching day and night from behind a glass window, my parents prayed unceasingly as they saw their daughter waste away. One day, my dad was so overcome with sorrow. He was walking through a store and found this plaque with three girls hiding in the storm. He picked it up knowing that this was what he needed to see and read each day during this storm they were in. They hung it up on their wall for 38 years.

This past Fall, when they came to visit just after they moved to a new house, my mom gave this to me as a gift, and my Dad told me the story. I had never known the background story of why this plaque came into our home. Now it all made sense why it was so important to me, and now it is hanging on the wall of my home, as a continuing reminder of God’s mighty works in my life to share with my children as a testimony.

As the years continued on, through the joys of childhood and growing up, I would one day be faced with a new illness for a time, another season of my Mom and Dad holding my hand through a new storm. And again, we would look to God’s Word for our comfort, that Scripture plaque that held the promise of God’s presence and shelter from the storm. There is so much hope knowing that my Savior would never leave me or forsake me.

You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
Deuteronomy 6:8-9 ESV

Seeing Scripture on the walls of our home impacted me greatly. It was a static reminder about the truth of God. And when you see something every day for 20 years of your life, you memorize it. That is why it is valuable to put Scripture up around your home, whether on your walls, in a frame, posted on your fridge, or taped to the bathroom mirror on an index card. Its not only valuable, its a command of our God as one of the ways we will hide or treasure God’s Word in our hearts and teach our children to do the same.

In Deuteronomy, God through Moses, is preparing the nation of Israel to enter the Promised Land. Moses is explaining God’s law and how to pass it on for the new generation. It showcases God’s loving care for His people and their children. Decorating our homes with God’s statutes and testimonies is His idea. It is like an “Eben-Ezer”, which means a stone of help, a memorial of the mighty acts of God.

For Israel, it was so that they would not forget Him and go after the idols of the people surrounding them. It is the same for us. God’s command in having His Word be put everywhere in His people’s lives is meant to remind us daily of His faithfulness, His provision, His holy ways, and His mercies, new every morning.


Scripture Art from Hand Lettering Co.

How can we do this in our homes? There are many creative ways! Some people actually write Scripture on their doorposts and gates! But you can also do this other ways. One of my favorite ways is by purchasing Scripture Art from Hand Lettering Co. My husband purchased several pieces to decorate our former church. We also bought several pieces for our own home. To learn more about their Scripture art and support this beautiful business, check out Hand Lettering Co.


Scripture Art from Hand Lettering Co.

Another resource which I have benefitted from is French Press Mornings. Free Scripture art is featured each week to download and print. You can download and print these from your own computer for use at home or purchase copies from her etsy shop.

My hope is that through the years, my children will daily see these pieces of Scripture, and that the Lord will direct my children’s gaze to His Word all over our home, comforting them in times of trial, reminding them of God’s promises, and strengthening them in truth. May it be like a stone of help and a remembrance of how God has brought us through different seasons or trials in our life. It is the Holy Spirit who works through His Word to bring to salvation all who are called. We as parents are called to follow God’s commands in teaching our children God’s Word, setting up our banners and letting lose the sails, praying that the Holy Spirit will fill those sails and bring about fruit in His season.

I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.
Psalm 119:11 NIV


Scripture Art from Hand Lettering Co. 


Mommy Ninja Goes to the Library

“Let’s go to the library!” I exclaimed as I fastened their seatbelts. We hadn’t been to the library for a few months as there are certain stages in a little one’s early years that suit going to the library more than at other times! I felt that perhaps my youngest was past that stage and ready for the library again. So we hopped on over to that special place of magical lands and fairytales anticipating a grand adventure!

When we arrived, little E went straight for the computers to which I directed, “No computers. We’re here to look at books.” First obstacle conquered. We continued on to the children’s area. Right away, I noticed the kids’ toys were gone, to which I quickly processed the next obstacles in keeping my almost 2 year old distracted from running around the entire library. After adjusting to this predicament, I discerned that this would actually work in my favor as there would be no transfer of mid-winter germs to my children and would aid in my determination to train said 2 year old in the art of reading and sitting still… a determination that takes Ninja Mommy skills. I am that Ninja Mommy. Four kids later, I have acquired skills!

I grabbed a quick book to direct my children to the little kid table. Every new thing for a two year old is awesome… for about 5 seconds! But another obstacle stood in my way… another two year old stood at the table. I was intimidated. My plans were being thwarted and the stare down between the two toddlers began with a loud, “No!” from the other child. My little H has developed a furrowed brow habit that he directs toward anyone who is looking at him for a prolonged amount of time. I wasn’t sure what would happen next as the 5 second silence was too much for me to bear. I swiftly encouraged my little munchkin to “come look at books!” So I went on the search for the most wholesome and intriguing of children’s literature. I have been very impressed with the selection at our library and I always leave with way more books than I had planned. So I put down my bag, and started the collection. Little E had already found a book on Ninjago, a treasured find and he was eagerly absorbing the pictorial content. I continued my quest for excellent literature that would provide learning opportunities and help my little ones develop their taste for beauty and art in literature.

After a brief interest in three Thomas the Train books, little H had found the Dr Seuss shelf which he was absolutely fascinated by. He was book by book dismantling their entire display shelf and re-organizing the books in various new locations. When I tried to lead him toward sitting down to look at some books on a puffy pillow, he eventually took off running laps around the children’s book shelves! I was determined to pick out my special books when he went to the older children’s area and found a book on wrestling, which doesn’t surprise me as he was pinning his older brother to the ground in the kitchen earlier this morning!

Finally, I had collected enough books and went to check them out while Little E played on the computer, and Little H mostly played with headphone cords while trying to rip them out of the computer and tripping on them as he flung himself to the floor in a fit of frustration.

After stuffing my diaper bag full of books and picking up my flailing two year old, we headed for the exit door only to have all the security alarms sound. So we went through 10 minutes of trying to figure out which books still needed to be silenced.

We left the library that morning with: a little “twaddle” which Charlotte Mason would not approve of; a little Pinkalicious, Purplicious, Emeraldicious and Aqualicious because if you read one, you must read them all; a little ninja here and a little ninja there; some Tomie de Paola, Felicia Bond, and to top it all off, some Jan Brett! It was a successful trip to the library. This Ninja Mommy will return to the library next time with a few new strategies to continue to conquer each obstacle in her path while defending the cause of literacy and excellency in children’s literature… ninja style!

Or maybe he’s just not ready to go back to the library yet.

Raising Little Ones: Four Book Reviews

The fireworks lit up the night sky just hours after they placed my first born daughter on my chest. It was Canada Day, but to me, the fireworks were all for her, my little princess. All I could think of to say was “I love you, I love you, I love you…” over and over as I held her close, my body worn from labor and deliriously in love with this beautiful child God had given us. The very first book my husband read to our daughter happened to be Lord of the Rings, The Two Towers. I was asleep while he read Tolkien’s brooding classic in the wee hours of the morning. I probably would have chosen something a little lighter such as Beatrix Potter, but he went straight for the literary genius himself. Our daughter was finally in our arms.

As a new mom, I was unaware of the thousands of books written about parenting. Which ones were good and which ones were bad? Which ones were trending in churches and which ones were from our parents’ generation, still sitting on their shelves in their libraries at home. And if I turned out okay, maybe I should read those books that my parents read!

To be honest, I wanted to be in the know for all the latest how-to parenting answers. But I just couldn’t keep up. There were constantly new books on the market. I felt that I was missing out on the latest method of how to say “no” to your child when they are taking a toy away from their friend. I hadn’t realized there were two new approaches I hadn’t heard of! I got insecure and wondered if my methods were outdated. I modeled my mothering after my own mother, whom I believe did a faithful job of raising her children. My mother has been my living book on topics of homemaking, raising girls, hospitality, decorating, and creating a Christ-centered home. She has been my living example.

Of the books that I have read on parenting little ones, there are four that stand out:

Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp
Craig and I were introduced to this book by some friends. We even got to go to the Shepherding a Child’s Heart parenting conference. This book was a great introduction into the world of gospel parenting. Of course you cannot reduce parenting to a textbook but it holds much practical and helpful advice which we needed as we were starting out on this journey.

The Hidden Art of Homemaking by Edith Schaeffer
I heard about this book from my pastor’s wife in Washington. Edith Schaeffer is an author that I am slowly getting to know. There is a Schaeffer theme that has been weaving its way through our lives in the past 10 years. It started when we went to L’Abri in Switzerland and spent 6 weeks at this Christian community. I made lentil lasagna in her kitchen with other students and remember chopping vegetables and having many conversations with staff and students in their home. Mrs Schaeffer was still living nearby but access to her was very limited in her elderly age, so I was unable to meet with her. But I would have loved to. She wrote this book, mostly about creating a home environment, yet parenting, art and creativity are so naturally woven into everything about her homemaking that it is one of my favorite parenting books! From spending time in her home, I can imagine what it would have been like for her while writing these books and raising her children in the chalet at Huemoz. And it makes me want to go back there right now!

The Ministry of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson
Sally Clarkson has been ministering to moms for decades and yet I only discovered her writing after our third child was born. Another book offering from my pastor’s wife at our baby shower, it was one that I was eagerly anticipating to read. Sally speaks from years of experience as a mother discipling her children. As mothers, our first and primary ministry is to our husbands and to our children, discipling, training, and mentoring. We have the opportunity to invest our lives into these few children who daily see our struggles, our failures, and the glory of Christ bestowing His grace again and again in our own hearts. This is ministry. This is true discipleship. And it happens right in the sanctuary of our own homes. How much more important it is then to build our homes into Christ honoring ministry centers. This book is about offering Jesus to our children.

Give Them Grace by Elyse Fitzpatrick & Jessica Thompson
This is the most recent book on parenting that I have read. Elyse Fitzpatrick and her daughter, Jessica Thompson, have written this beautiful volume, incorporating both experience from Elyse as a grandmother looking back and her daughter reflecting on parenting in the midst of it. Last Fall, we were in transition. I was utterly burnt out and seeking the Lord for guidance in our home management. He is such a gentle shepherd. (Even writing that makes me smile). Our God is great! He lovingly led my husband and I in the direction He was leading us. One night in desperation, I looked up Christian parenting books online and when I saw this title, it was like God was speaking directly to me. It was a refreshing reminder of Biblical parenting and gave very practical and helpful suggestions for specific things to say and questions to ask when correcting behavior or dealing with deeper heart issues.

It seems that with every new baby, I had a desire to read another parenting book, focus in on my mission as a mother, and to find insight and wisdom to carry out this huge task of motherhood. There are many wonderful things to learn from parenting books. Its definitely helpful. But don’t neglect reading God’s Word.

We’re often wanting to read the latest thing that our favorite author or ministry leader has said, without devoting time to the study of Scripture where all our parenting should flow out of. This is the true source of wisdom, comfort, rest, hope, peace, and strength in the beautiful and challenging days of motherhood. There are many different parenting styles and everyone has their opinion. Even in all these books, there might be one or two certain opinions that I don’t necessarily agree with. Keeping opinions vs. biblical truth straight is a practice in discernment. Keeping the Word of God central in your parenting will help to hone in on what is truly Biblical and what is just someone’s opinion. It will nourish and feed our souls like no other book can do, and will draw us closer to the Greatest Parent of all.

Other resources that have encouraged me in the beautiful calling of motherhood:
Loving the Little Years by Rachel Jankovic
Passionate Homemaking by Lindsay Edmonds
Mom Enough: The Fearless Mother’s Heart & Hope by Various Authors

These two books contain chapters on motherhood within the larger framework of the book and have been a great encouragement to me as well:
Feminine Appeal by Carolyn Mahaney
Womanly Dominion by Mark Chanski